I was about to create a blog where I would write my opinions about topics, 'on' this and 'on' that. SO I came to blogdrive to create one and noticed I had made one a few years back!
Anyhow, the canvas is ready, the paints are out, and it is time to re-create the pictures in my mind..
So each post will deal with one particular topic.. aaand
~That's all.
:) P.S
Posted at 01:07 pm by Purple_Spirit
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Response types to an insult
Response types to an insult:


1) Reactive - insults back
2) Defensive - defend self by emphasizing on positive aspects
3) Acceptance - reluctant agreement to what is being said
4) Reasoning - critical analysis on what's right and wrong
5) Silence - thoughts contained within one's self
Eg: Insult: "Hah! You can only shoot the ball with one hand, not two! You donno how to play!"
Reactive : "Oh, like YOU'RE some pro Shaq, huh?"
Defensive : "Hey, at least I know how to dribble!"
Acceptance : "Yeah that's true, I should learn how."
Reasoning : "Everyone has a different style of shooting which works best for them. What's important is getting the ball in the hoop."
Silence : "......"
I'm a bit of defensive reasoning. I'm sensitive. (Defensive = weak!) What works best for you?
Posted at 04:25 pm by Purple_Spirit
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