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Friday, July 25, 2008
About this blog

I was about to create a blog where I would write my opinions about topics, 'on' this and 'on' that. SO I came to blogdrive to create one and noticed I had made one a few years back!

Anyhow, the canvas is ready, the paints are out, and it is time to re-create the pictures in my mind.. 

So each post will deal with one particular topic.. aaand

~That's all.

:) P.S

Posted at 01:07 pm by Purple_Spirit
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Saturday, January 07, 2006
Response types to an insult

Response types to an insult:

 

1) Reactive - insults back

2) Defensive - defend self by emphasizing on positive aspects

3) Acceptance - reluctant agreement to what is being said

4) Reasoning - critical analysis on what's right and wrong

5) Silence - thoughts contained within one's self

 

Eg: Insult: "Hah! You can only shoot the ball with one hand, not two! You donno how to play!"

Reactive : "Oh, like YOU'RE some pro Shaq, huh?"

Defensive : "Hey, at least I know how to dribble!"

Acceptance : "Yeah that's true, I should learn how."

Reasoning : "Everyone has a different style of shooting which works best for them. What's important is getting the ball in the hoop."

Silence : "......"

 

I'm a bit of defensive reasoning. I'm sensitive. (Defensive = weak!) What works best for you?

 

Posted at 04:25 pm by Purple_Spirit
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